Cyndi Lauper said it best, “Girls just want to have fun!”
Girls Trip featuring: Queen Latifah, Jada Pinkett-Smith, Regina Hall, and Tiffany Haddish was nothing short of hilarious! I’ve seen the movie three times and laugh EACH and EVERY time. Due to the laughter of the crowd…I heard something new each time. The movie is a feel good, real life comedy about four black women that attended college together. However, life after graduation has gotten in the way of their quality time. They are given the opportunity to go on a “Girls Trip” to New Orleans, where they reconnect with one another. The storyline was realistic yet comical.
For those of you that have not seen the movie, I will not spoil it for you! PROMISE 😊
This morning, my aunt tagged me on a vlog about “Girls Trip”. I watched the vlog and was immediately annoyed by the vloggers opinion. Now everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I’m just trying to figure out what planet she lives on.
The vlogger stated that “Girls Trip” was a disappointment, disgrace, extremely offensive, raunchy, stereotypical, and unrealistic.
Things I’d like to ask this vlogger:
- Do you have any friends?
- Are any of your friends black females?
- Were you allowed to have fun as a child?
- Where did you grow up?
- Did you attend college?
- Where do you live now?
- Does your Mom love you?
- Do you need a hug?
- Do you even know HOW to laugh?
- Did you even go out with your “friends” in college?
- Is your husband successful? (I peeped a wedding ring.)
- Are you happy in your marriage?
- What’s your husband’s ethnic background?
- Why is it necessary for a woman to have/keep a man in order to be complete?
- Do you attend church? (I know plenty of women just like Dina, Ryan, Sasha, and Lisa that attend church.)
- Have you ever needed time away from reality?
- Are your panties too tight?
- Do you have open conversations with your female “friends”?
- Do you EVEN know how to laugh?
- Are you in touch with reality?
Again, her opinion is just that…her opinion! I just DO NOT AGREE! However, I do understand it (after having an in-depth conversation with my best friend).
Based upon my experience, I know women that exhibit similar qualities and experiences of each character depicted in this movie. These women, including myself did not ask for these experiences. Living REAL life can throw a monkey wrench in your plans and dreams; it’s all about how you deal with your reality. As a matter of fact, Tiffany Haddish, who played Dina “The Wild One”, grew up in foster homes. Tiffany seems to be very street smart, funny, “loud”, but extremely WELL ROUNDED! Does she fit a stereotype? I’m sure she does, but her experiences shaped her personality. I’m shocked that a “black woman” would bash this film.
Now, there is another film similar to “Girls Trip” entitled “Rough Night” (mostly Caucasian cast). I have not seen this film and will probably just wait until it’s available on On Demand. I watched the trailer to see how similar that film was to “Girls Trip”. They are similar in that, a group of women got together for a trip. However, in “Rough Night” they end up killing a man. Hmmmmmm! The stereotype here…THAT PRIVILEGE shows up. I don’t know the outcome but I’m sure they didn’t get arrested for killing a man. I’d like to hear the vloggers take on “Rough Night” as well.
With all the being said, LIGHTEN UP! To those that have seen the movie continue to support and take your girlfriends that have not seen it. SUPPORT OUR BLACK SISTERS! The movie was phenomenal and is sure to be a CLASSIC. This movie showed that we CAN get along and we CAN be successful! We may not always agree with one another, we may argue, but in the end our love for one another outshines all the drama. #BlackGirlsRock #BlackGirlMagic
“When the working day is done
Oh when the working day is done oh girl
Girls, they wanna have fun!”~Cyndi Lauper (Girls Just Want to Have Fun)
Attached is the vlog I referred to. If you haven’t seen the movie…DO NOT WATCH this video, as it is a spoiler.